"He is a Nice Man but not My Man" Host Anuhasan on her ex-marriage life and more on her current love life with a foreigner.

The most popular host anuhasan is engaged to england based banker, graham..close knit engagement ceremony took place in her native sriangam. she is going to shuttle between London and Chennai after her marriage in November. I wanted to write an article about the long distance love story of Anu and graham to my magazine .when i contacted Anu for this,she concurred without any hesitation.she asked me to come to Taj coromandel for lunch .Anu got irritated when I reached there little late..she ordered some non-vegetarian foods for herself and fresh mango juice for me..I was surprised to see her eating fish fries and chicken tikka as she hails from a Brahman family. . In course of the lunch anuhasan opens up about her love life,and her ex-marriage.

Anuhasan got in touch with graham,a British by a music website. people become friends by exchanging their favorite songs."we became friends by sharing music,we share a similar taste in music.then we were chatting through email for quite a long time. At one point of time we could finally strike a chord .Graham proposed me for marriage. but I was initially resistant to accept the proposal due to my failed first marriage. I dont want to take a second chance in marraige .actually speaking i was not in need of a marriage. later when i met him in London at his place personally felt the drastic change in me. i couldn't decide anything as i was not sure of my married life with graham. my mom is an excellent philosopher. she could tell life changing philosophies at ease. mom gave me clear idea to decide on my marriage. " don think whether it will work or not,just try hard to make it work",these magical words from my mom pushed me into this second marriage" shares anuhasan with an excitement.

Anu was divorced quite a long time back. Her ex-husband Vikas is a Delhi based businessman. she openly talks about her ex-life and the mental trauma she underwent in a failed marriage."my first marriage was also a love marriage. vikas was my college mate. everything was fine with us when we were just love birds. things did not work when we became husband and wife. tons of misunderstandings raised which i could not solve. I was striving hard to save my marriage though i know from the very first day that it will not work. i struggled for almost 10 years to alter my relationship.but decided to come out of it when things went out of control. my ex-husband is a very nice man but not my man. past is past ,Iam not dwelling in the past but do not want to forget the important life lessons that i learnt from my first marriage." says Anu..

when asked about her current chemistry with graham.." hey,graham is such a sweet heart,i love him" she says excitedly.."he loves me for just the way Iam. of course there are some cultural differences between us ,but love binds us despite the differences. he is very much Indian at heart. he likes to go to kapaleeshwar temple whenever he comes to India. "ejamaniyamma", he calls me. this is the only Tamil word he would probably know. he gives lots of importance to the word ' please". its a magical word.he often says. he would turn aggressive if I ask him something without using this magical word "please". life is totally different with him. Iiam just expecting happiness in my married life,and am extremely happy with graham"

A nuhasan ends the conversation on a touching note..she said she wants to say something to our female readers from her life lessons."generally speaking ladies should keep the divorce as the last option in life. strive hard to save your marriage as it plays a vital role in a woman"s life it takes a toll in professional life when things are not ok in our personal lives. I too worked hard for 10 years to save my first marriage. when things went out of control I opted for divorce which i could say was a serious mental trauma. I was single for 5 years putting aside my thoughts of re marriage. then graham came in to my life and here comes my second marriage. don give up in life" says anuhasan.

My lunch meeting with anu extended for more than 2 hrs.and finally i took leave from her after an interesting chat." did I bore you for such a long time?" Anu sent a mail to me the next day.." no, I had a lovely time," I replied with a smiley..