Unusual Friendship

Two leading actresses can never become good friends is a known fact. Trisha,Shreya ,Sonia aggarwal,Reema sen have disproved the fact. Trisha and Shreya maintains a steady friendship despite their box office competition..Reema and Sonia are inseparable in the parties.spoke to these leading ladies about their unusual friendship for an article to my magazine..

"shreya is such a sweet friend of mine." says Trisha."i feel like being with my school friend when Iam with Shreya. we have heard of love at first sight,but friendship at first sight happened to us. we became friends in just few minutes when we met on the sets of unakku 18 for the very first time. she likes surprising her friends. i remember once she came to my home,she was wearing a beautiful shoe. i told her that i liked her shoe so much. after she went to mumbai , i got a parcel from Shreya. she had sent me the same brand shoe which i liked. somehow she could manage to get the same shoe. that was really a pleasant surprise for me and she made my day. she loves clicking pics in parties. the next day she would email the pics to me with the subtitle"sweet memories". she enjoys every single moment of life" concludes Trisha..

Contacted Shreya to know about her beautiful moments with Trisha..usually Shreya remains unreachable..but this time she came forward to speak about her friendship with Trisha.."i love Trish". says Shreya." whenever Iam in mumbai I would be roaming around with Reema ,.If Iam in Chennai i would be with trisha. she hates filmy gossips,especially in a private party.so i avoid talking about films when iam with her. mostly in the premiere shows i would look into trisha's eyes for her comment.she is the only one who would frankly tell me the truth about the film. recently she dropped into one of my premiere show from mumbai exclusively for me, thats trish".

when comes to friendship sonia and reema expects honesty.." I have very few friends in my filmy circle" says Sonia.. " i cannot keep friendship with a person unless that person is genuine and transparent in a relationship. reema is one such friend of mine.i would share even my personal problems with reema. If Iam depressed I would call reema to get myself charged with positive energy. sometimes she is very childish,she would force me to wear the same color dress to the parties we attend together. she is very talkative and Iam much calm and composed. may be this contrast worked out well in our friendship. Reema is definitely a close friend of mine whom i trust so much"

Reema and Sonia seem to be having wonderful time in the parties.."people think that we know each other only after ayirathil oruvan ,I know her for quite a long time " says Reema. " we became close friends on the sets of AO. sonia is good at maintaining secrets. so I would vent my frustrations to her as she would not reveal it to anyone. on the lighter side she loves watches. though she has got cupboard full of watches,she would be happy only if I gift her wrist watch. shreya is my neighbor in mumbai. so we three of us would go to parties,we cant miss shreya. but sonia is close to me"..

I would call it as a strange ,unusual friendships..

Like Marriage But Hate weddings

'wedding' .I hate weddings..I hardly attend any of my freind's wedding..It does'nt mean that I hate marriage..but Iam not Ok with the wedding ceremonies. .just imagine two people are getting married to start a new life,it is only between that two..why 200 need to witness the event..when i go to some of the wedding i miss the feel in it..not able to understand the mantras,not able to go near our dear ones,not able to speak to friends sitting next to us due to unbearable noise.sometimes need to face people whom we wanted to avoid..elder ones will ask silly,irritating questions .many of the relatives show sudden affection . some may keep the wedding in unreacheable place that too early morning muhurtham .

Many of us would have tough time choosing the gifts,if money confusion again in the amount 200 or 300.and Dresses..What to wear for the wedding?.I have seen people attend wedding to just eat ..hear some vulgar comments about the bride or the groom from mannerless people. many of our distant relatives find tuff time in the dusty chatrams,trouble the elders in the name of marriage....pompous wedding doesn't make any sense to me..

Muhurtham atleast is meaningful we can consider this to an extent ..Reception. Iam getting wild as soon as i hear this word reception. same people who attended the wedding will be attending the reception,same old chaos..when marraige itself is over by morning why do you need this reception .Funny to see the couples introducing there friends amidst hear jamming orchestra..Pose to the camera for one single click .we hardly get time and space to wish our dear ones.."happy marri"....thats all we would be obviously pushed by the next one.. The only word we hear from our dear ones is ' saaptu po'. We girls hardly wear jwellery but why do you flaunt yourself with 10 kg jwelleries and 5 types sarees which we would never touch again . .when I sit and witness a wedding I feel sick.why simply mugging up lessons without understanding the basic concept..

Just see in this entire wedding scenario is there any sincere wishes,any prayers,? . are you sure that people who attend your wedding would wholeheartedly wish you a happy married life..when I skip I would always sincerely pray for the couple's well being and a peaceful married life.

.Yes iam going to get married,I would love to get married,I believe in the institutuion of marriage..but How?..listen..I would like to have a simple wedding and grand married life..Marriage is not that single wedding day. .marriage and married life is actually after that .we give importance to wedding ignoring the basic idea of a happy married life .marriage is a wonderful beginning. .unconditional love is what is marriage according to me .personal life between the just two. .the relatives and the friends who witnessed the grand gala wedding are not going to be with us in the ups and downs of married life .one and only the couples are going to witness the whole married life .need to concentrate and plan the married life not the wedding date.

Iinstead wasting time in thinking how to conduct a wedding,just spend time organising your married life,concentrate in finding the right guy or girl for a fantastic married life .Have seen many lavish weddings ended in bitter divorce..marraige totally relies on the character of the partner we choose, defnitely not in the nature of weddings..dont think about the relative's comments whom are not going to spend even a sinle penny for the wedding expenses..

so what shall we do?..ok ..what I will do.. I would like to get married at my home..yes my home,my sweet little home where i grew up all these years.. .after the wedding would give annadhaanam in any renowned ashram in rememberance of my marriage and hence service to mankind is service to god..Parents..who were with us both in the tuff and happy times..mom for her unconditional support,dad for pillar of strength and siblings who made our life wonderful .Are these genuine,kind,loving people are not enough to witness the most important happening in our life? .the same with my partners side. .Iam getting married for my self not for others..Iam content with this style of wedding.. would take every sincere steps from my side to make my married life peaceful..In the fast food life need to understand the importance of simple marraige..

I have a concept of an information card than an invitation card..would like to inform my friends with a neat little card saying" friends i got married"..friends will scream and some may even get wild...its ok things will come back to normal..when each of us follow this same pattern,then these kind of marriages will become normal. as time advance people would be shocked if anybody opt for a pompous wedding..This is the change we need..just be the change you need..but Iam still in search of a good hearted person lead a fantastic married life...Iam confident that I would find my guy in the millions..

Try to understand the fine difference between marriage and wedding. focus on the married life than this oru naal koothu called "wedding"..