Like Marriage But Hate weddings

'wedding' .I hate weddings..I hardly attend any of my freind's wedding..It does'nt mean that I hate marriage..but Iam not Ok with the wedding ceremonies. .just imagine two people are getting married to start a new life,it is only between that two..why 200 need to witness the event..when i go to some of the wedding i miss the feel in it..not able to understand the mantras,not able to go near our dear ones,not able to speak to friends sitting next to us due to unbearable noise.sometimes need to face people whom we wanted to avoid..elder ones will ask silly,irritating questions .many of the relatives show sudden affection . some may keep the wedding in unreacheable place that too early morning muhurtham .

Many of us would have tough time choosing the gifts,if money confusion again in the amount 200 or 300.and Dresses..What to wear for the wedding?.I have seen people attend wedding to just eat ..hear some vulgar comments about the bride or the groom from mannerless people. many of our distant relatives find tuff time in the dusty chatrams,trouble the elders in the name of marriage....pompous wedding doesn't make any sense to me..

Muhurtham atleast is meaningful we can consider this to an extent ..Reception. Iam getting wild as soon as i hear this word reception. same people who attended the wedding will be attending the reception,same old chaos..when marraige itself is over by morning why do you need this reception .Funny to see the couples introducing there friends amidst hear jamming orchestra..Pose to the camera for one single click .we hardly get time and space to wish our dear ones.."happy marri"....thats all we would be obviously pushed by the next one.. The only word we hear from our dear ones is ' saaptu po'. We girls hardly wear jwellery but why do you flaunt yourself with 10 kg jwelleries and 5 types sarees which we would never touch again . .when I sit and witness a wedding I feel sick.why simply mugging up lessons without understanding the basic concept..

Just see in this entire wedding scenario is there any sincere wishes,any prayers,? . are you sure that people who attend your wedding would wholeheartedly wish you a happy married life..when I skip I would always sincerely pray for the couple's well being and a peaceful married life.

.Yes iam going to get married,I would love to get married,I believe in the institutuion of marriage..but How?..listen..I would like to have a simple wedding and grand married life..Marriage is not that single wedding day. .marriage and married life is actually after that .we give importance to wedding ignoring the basic idea of a happy married life .marriage is a wonderful beginning. .unconditional love is what is marriage according to me .personal life between the just two. .the relatives and the friends who witnessed the grand gala wedding are not going to be with us in the ups and downs of married life .one and only the couples are going to witness the whole married life .need to concentrate and plan the married life not the wedding date.

Iinstead wasting time in thinking how to conduct a wedding,just spend time organising your married life,concentrate in finding the right guy or girl for a fantastic married life .Have seen many lavish weddings ended in bitter divorce..marraige totally relies on the character of the partner we choose, defnitely not in the nature of weddings..dont think about the relative's comments whom are not going to spend even a sinle penny for the wedding expenses..

so what shall we do?..ok ..what I will do.. I would like to get married at my home..yes my home,my sweet little home where i grew up all these years.. .after the wedding would give annadhaanam in any renowned ashram in rememberance of my marriage and hence service to mankind is service to god..Parents..who were with us both in the tuff and happy times..mom for her unconditional support,dad for pillar of strength and siblings who made our life wonderful .Are these genuine,kind,loving people are not enough to witness the most important happening in our life? .the same with my partners side. .Iam getting married for my self not for others..Iam content with this style of wedding.. would take every sincere steps from my side to make my married life peaceful..In the fast food life need to understand the importance of simple marraige..

I have a concept of an information card than an invitation card..would like to inform my friends with a neat little card saying" friends i got married"..friends will scream and some may even get wild...its ok things will come back to normal..when each of us follow this same pattern,then these kind of marriages will become normal. as time advance people would be shocked if anybody opt for a pompous wedding..This is the change we need..just be the change you need..but Iam still in search of a good hearted person lead a fantastic married life...Iam confident that I would find my guy in the millions..

Try to understand the fine difference between marriage and wedding. focus on the married life than this oru naal koothu called "wedding"..

"Iam not dating siddharth" Says Shruthi

shruthi haasan is striving hard to make her mark in films.In the meanwhile rumor mill says that this budding actress has been dating siddharth and is getting serious about her relationship. Is she dating siddharth? caught up with shruthi while she was in her studio composing songs for her dad's next film "yavarum kelir"..

"we both are working together in a telugu film"yodha". i dont know the language,siddharth helps me to speak telugu dialogues. he is such a wonderful co-star and a talented actor. we became great friends on the sets of this telugu film. Iam not dating siddharth and I can clearly say that iam not in love with him."

Recently you were spotted together at the striker premiere show..

Hey come on I just dropped in to watch the film,not to hangout with siddharth. if I love a person I will openly talk about him. Iam like my dad, Iwill speak my mind. there is no need for me to hide my relationship and deny the rumors.

Latest news is that you have introduced siddharth to your dad and you are really serious in getting married to him.what do you say for this?

No way,Iam not in a mood to get married now. Iam still a long way to go in my career. Right now I would like to concentrate in my work rather introducing a guy to my dad. At this stage marraige talks are little too much for me.

Did your dad ever speak to you about this?

Everybody is asking me about this,.Iam continuously answering phone calls but until now my dad did not ask me about this. He knows that i would tell him if anything serious.He is always there for me. He has given me enough freedom and i will not misuse it.

Are you relocating to mumbai ?

Yes.Iam planning to shift to mumbai as it is the right place to make something big in music and films. Will shift to mumbai as soon as i get an apartment.I would prefer to be independent and live my own life. would miss chennai as well.

Why have you walked out of prabhudeva's film "Ich" ?

Iam not at all committed with the film to walk away from it. nobody has approached me from prabhudeva's side . This is another fake news like my link up with siddharth.

"Iam not a party person" In Conversation With Asin

You like her or not but cannot deny the fact that Asin is an immensely talented Actress.she got her place in hindi cinema by her outstanding performance in gajini.Currently she stays in a luxurious apartment at lokhandwala ,mumbai where sridevi,tabu,juhi are her neighbours.caught up with asin for a quick chat to my magazine..

How is life in mumbai..are you ok with the party culture?

ya..everynight people party out here..but iam not a party person.would prefer to be at home than partying out.moreover i dont go to parties for publicity.there is no need for me to develop contacts in a party..ya i can say that iam not used to this party culture..otherwise life is fantastic here..

How about the treatment in bollywood?

Southindian heroines have a good impression.people here know that we are talented,disciplinedand punctual on sets.After Rahman's twin oscar vicrory southindian actors are celebrated here..

You dub in your own voice to all your films..how come you learn so many languages..?

I love to learn new languages..Iam good at french too.can dub even for a french film..as a sincere actress myself,out of my own interest i dub for my films..that little effort from my side makes me happy..I think it is a part of my job to dub in my voice..

..Split with parents,link ups with salman khan..can you clarify these controversies?

I have no issues with my parents.I stay in my apartment with them.controversies related to my parents and salmankhan are absolutely baseless.it hurts when my parents are unnecessarily dragged into this.will tell you one thing,my mom is an angel and dad is my pillar of strength.i realy cannot goahead without them.

Trisha has followed your steps..she is finally into bollywood..any message to her?

Iam not a grandma to advice her..my best wishes to trisha.

Heard that you have signed a film with vijay..Are you back into tamil films..?

Vijay is a very good friend of mine.would like to act with him but nobody has approached me for his film.anyway iam not signing any southindian fils for the next 6 months..

That is the latest from asin

"Am I Dhoni's wife?" lakshmi rai's reaction to her link up with Cricketer Dhoni

Lakshmi rai is back in the headlines.once again linked up with cricketer mahendra singh dhoni.The latest talk is about her brand new BMW5 series car,worth 48 lakhs..bollywood media says that it has been gifted to her by dhoni. I contacted her to know about this for my magazine as she spoke to me earlier about her relationship with dhoni..when asked about the car.."wow..yes i got a BMW car" says lakshmi rai excitedly.but she got irritated when asked whether it was gifted to her by her boyfriend dhoni..

"BMW is my dream car since childhood..just got it few months back.Iam driving it only in my home town belgaum,will soon drive it to chennai as well.I do have many cars at home but this is my first expensive car" says lakshmi..

Was it a gift?

yes..my dad gifted to me for my birthday..

Heard that it was gifted to you by dhoni?

"Am I dhoni's wife?"..why would he gift me such an expensive car....just stop linking me with dhoni anymore..she signs off.

"I do not label my relationship with kamal sir" says Gowthami

Met actress gowthami at kamal haasan's office..she is still slim,sleak and beautiful at heart.what ever it is,she speaks from the bottom of her heart.her vibrant face gave me instant energy.actress gowthami is actualy surviving cancer.for the very first time she spoke to me about her survival of cancer for my magazine.the way she is handling cancer is an important life lesson that has to be learnt..
"Just 10 years back i had a clear picture in my mind about my life.but now i clearly understood that planning is impossible in life.we have to take every second as it comes.every 24 hrs is what is life.if we fail to understand this,defnitely we would end up in great failures.just live now has become my life principle now" says evidently confident gowthami.."i have been struggling with cancer for past 6 years.when i first heard about this,i was emotionaly shattered" after a moment of silence she continues..

"destruction is a positive sign according to me.when things crumble around you,it leaves no other choice but to rebuild.i realised that this is the time to rebuild my innerstrength and values.i handled my medical problem in a practical way as i hail from a medical family.cancer treatments are realy tuff,physically and mentaly tiresome.later i was mentally prepared for the severe treatment.i have been to many public functions,until recently many of my filmy friends dont even have a single clue of my illness.i prefer to be cheerfull and attractive all the time.some of them even asked me that how i could be happy inspite of my serious illness.why should i stumble? i simply ask them in return..
How are you now..are you ok?

iam better now..nothing can be guaranteed.iam just living my life..

What kind of support you get from kamal and his family?

now iam into serials..playing an interesting character in "abirami"..generally one has to be personally happy to do well in professional career..iam personally happy to do well in my job.kamal sir and his family gives me this personal happiness.their moral support gives me inner strength.myself and kamal sir,we have mutual respect for each other.i do not label my beautiful relationship with kamal sir.i realy cannot define it" says gowthami..

Tamannaaaaaaaah..

wow..what a complexion? girls envy,boys stunned when one sees tamanna onscreen..innocent look,spicy smile ,surprisingly a pinch of acting makes this snow white someone special..caught up with this star on the sets of paiyya.her hands are full for the next one year.. she says some interesting stuffs about herself..just know more about your dream girl from her own words..

Love lordganesha..where ever iam will be back home to mumbai for ganesh chatthurthi.we have been celebrating this festival in a grand manner for more than 12 years..

Diehard fan of hrithik roshan.. trying to get an autograph from him

Zero in cooking..dont know to make even tea..

Next jackpot is my next film with vijay. people told me that he is very sweet..lets see

Iam a B.A economics graduate from national college mumbai. always been good academic student in My school days./scored 96% marks in my board exams

Would like to dub voice for an animation character in an animation film. would like to have some funny experience

Favourite holiday spot is tajmahal..have been to taj for every holidays since childhood

Had gone to college only in salwar kameez.. never worn even a jean..my friends are stunned by my glamorous onscreen look

I have a strange habit..will not watch my own film,not seen iyan yet

Can you guess my latest shopping stuff? its traditional dosai tava,i dint get this in mumbai

"I have no personal clashes with nayanthara"..clarifies tamanna

Teen's favourite nokia music express model is my current mobile phone

Hyundai accent..my first car bought out of my first salary..so i have not changed this car yet

Ad films were my actual key to cinema.fair and lovely ad got me my first hindi film offer..rmkv ad helped me to get my first tamil film offer

Packed with new offers only after changing my name to tammannaah according to numerology. i have no idea about others,but numerology worked out for me.to an extent i do believe it

December 21..my birthday..brother used to surprise me on my birthday

Mix 1 tsp of gramflour,2 tsp of curd.apply this pack twice a week for tan removal.i have tried this when i get tanned in sunny shooting days

Not used glycerine in any of my emotional scenes.i have learnt this from my theatre background

Karthi and surya are totally contrasting characters. karthi is very talkative,surya is calm and composed..They are my most comfortable co stars.

people call me idly nowadays..this is a nick name kept by my kalloori film unit friends..now even in public functions people started calling me idly..do i look like idly?

I write beautiful english poems...used to read english poetry every night.....

I have a habit of sleeping whenever i find little time for myself..in school days lunch hour not meant for eating..i used to sleep in my lunchhour..even while studying for exams,i would sleep for 10 minutes after one hour of study..friends used to call me sleeping beauty in my school days as most of the time i would sleep in my class..

Iam not an actress by an accident..never wanted to become doctor or collector in my life..always aspired to become an actress since childhood..

Nothing but self confidence

"The dictionary doesnt have the right word to explain how i feel now" says ummul,a cerebral palsy affected girl on her college convocation day.she passed out of M.O.P vaishnav college with B.A sociology.inspite of being physically challenged,ummul with her sheer confidence,opyimistic approach and inner strength has achieved this level.she is unlike other girls graduating every year.she is undoubtedly someone special..met this achiever at vidyasagar home for an article to my magazine.first thing i noticed about her was her unstriking confidence

let me explain her condition first.she has been affected by cerebral palsy,a brain defect since childhood.cerebral palsy is a brain dysfunction in which the motor functions of the brain is affected and hence both the hands and legs are immovable except 2 fingers.poor memory,disrupted speech also troubled herjust because of her condition she was not sent to school till 12 years of age.almost 12 years she was at home with wheelchair as her soul supportout of her own interest she started learning english alphabets at the age of 16.when asked about her schooling she excitedly says.."those few years were the most happiest moments in my life. I did my 10th exams in a private school in which there will be 6 months gap between each exam exclusively for special kids like me. i wanted to join school but my choice was not special school.my dream to study with the normal children came true when kindhearted principal of lady andal school gave me a seat.i managed to finish my plus 2 exams within 2 years with the help of my friends.i used to record my teachers notes and learn slowly by listening to it.we used to have good fun which i had missed all through my dry childhood.i never knew about the outside world until i started studying..

ummul has passed plus 2 with reasonable marks after which she joined M.O.P vaishnav college.this might sound simple but life has not been that easy for ummul. getting ready to college itself has been a huge for this girl.she has to get up at 3am for 8am college hour,as it will take ample of time to just do her basic things and get ready.."i know iam slow,but picked up little speed after years of physiotherapy excercise.iam 30 now,i would have finished my college studies at the right age if my parents had sent me to school at the right age.lack of awareness about my problem was my major drawback" reasons ummul

she is recently back from america after a month leadership programme.right now she is a first year law student in ambedkar law college chennai.ummul cant remember names and numbers,she has failed several times in her school hisrory exams.but as far as i watched her everything is possible according to her.." law is a great challenge to me,hope i complete 4 years of law and defnetly one day will fight for the fundamental rights of physically challenged" says an evidently angry ummul

I have seen children who do not study inspite of good health and all the hitech facilities at home.amomg such lazy students ummul stands unique.her thirst to study speaks volumes about the importance of learning in one's life..

I quit the habit of complaining after i met this girl..